Letters written from others. . .

I’d like to share with you some really touching email letters I have received recently. I understand you may find meaning in seeing what others say when you are selecting a Dakini for your health and pleasure. Please know letters below are printed anonymously as I reserve privacy for each individual. I suggest, you follow your intuitive guidance or ‘gut” when choosing your Sacred Sexuality  Guide, Dakini. . .

Updated February 2020

“Dakini,
Just want you to know.. you are Perfect, Generous, Kind, Gorgeous, Sensual and just so Hot. …your caring…and sensitive heart…my admirations are yours!”

“Oceana,
I just want to tell you how much I enjoyed my time with you. Thank you again for taking me to such a wonderful place. Now I need to go back there.
The warmest thoughts.”

“Oceana,
When I left your sanctuary I was feeling a great sense of gratitude, but being so deeply immersed in body sensation found it hard to express. I just wanted to write to say thank you. I truly appreciate your intuition, your wordless guidance, and the joy that you express through connection. I am grateful for the safety that you are helping me to feel, and am excited to continue.”

“Dakini,
The past two days I have felt more sensitivity in my body and it helps me shift into a state of being where I am energized and encouraged by the flow of life, rather than avoidant out of fear. Sending hugs.”

“Oceana, i think of you often, even though i am not with you physically. the world turns, things confuse, we remain serene and soulful. your warmth shines through day by day. peace, love, laugh………”

“Oceana
Thank you so much for meeting with the both of us. You are wonderful . We are so pleased and so looking forward to exploring deeper layers with you 😘😘”

“Hi Oceana,  
Happy Morning! I still feel like I am levitating.  What an amazing journey and enlightenment into my senses on so many levels. My experience became ultimate liberation of accepting sacred pleasure. “

“Oceana – Thank-you for today / I’m still in the moment and yet to take full reflection / however the serenity is blissful – Thank you again – you are beautiful. So many thoughts swirling … will have to write them … but for now … you are amazing, precious and beyond words. We pass through each other’s lives, so complex and intertwined… and then we depart.  It’s fascinating my world, into yours.  You gift an amazing sincere and for real experience, as always. … Here is an article about a new “mini-moon’ they spotted. There’s a line in this piece that reminds me of our encounters. . .“

“Dear Oceana,
I hope you are well.
I wanted to let you know how much you helped me during our session. I came away with a sense of calm, and a feeling of relief — realizing how much shame or anxiety or pain I had been carrying — but seeing it all in a different light, feeling less of the weight of it.
I woke up the next morning, with an inkling of a new thought: It was just this: “Maybe I am not broken.” I hadn’t realized that I had carried that thought inside me for a long time, perhaps from childhood.
I think it was your love and kindness and pure acceptance that helped me most — allowed me to surrender and just allow all of the hard feelings I had that day to be felt. I can’t tell you how much learning how to breathe differently, without constriction has begun to open up new vistas of feeling and sensual energy and pleasure and freedom.
I thank you for the gift of your presence, touch, voice and heart. You are a blessing. I find myself not just feeling more of a joyful abandon in love making, but enjoying the simple daily pleasures of deeper embodiedness, and connected more deeply to life and to other creatures and nature! That’s the door you opened for me.
Thank you, for the gift of your presence, touch, voice and heart. You are a blessing.
Love”

Updated January  2020: 

“Oceana, My Muse, Now that I’ve come down just a little bit from Cloud 9 … (pausing now, closing my eyes, deep breath, hold, slowly exhale, calm comes over me as I gaze into your eyes)….(repeating)…Still a bit on Could 9 from last week..  I have much to learn.  Please, teach me more. Namaste.”


“My Dearest Oceana and Beloved Dakini,
Yes, there is not nearly a day that goes by where I do not have a thought of you.  And without question, I reference back to our last retreat and the impact that it has had on my life. I look forward to what the Universe will unveil this year, as I journey closer to the Divine and fall deeper into your power. Speak soon my Goddess. Yours, and always in absolute devoted worship of you.”

“Dear Oceana, It’s nearly five years since I visited you in New York, and three years since our last Skype session. I still think of you every day, often several times.  Most of those thoughts are connected with nature, sensuality, and solitude, a love that we share.  I’m writing to tell you about the most poignant of these times.
I often wish that we lived closer and that We might be able to be closer.  I would like that.”


“Oceana, It’s been too long since we have been together. I’ve been wanting to meet you again but next time with my husband. Maybe we can discuss our different options for a romantic rejuvenation in New York?”


“Dear Oceana, Many thanks for your kindness. You are very special
I wish you the very best. Je t’embrasse 😘”

“Oceana, There are so many wonderful emotions, memorizes and wonderments that I experienced when I was in your presence.  From the moment I saw you in person and that amazing smile you have, which is the kind of smile I often have thought of as it is the kind of smile that last all winter.  To your amazing physical beauty as well as your inner beauty which I saw in your eyes to your touch, your words, and the kindness in your heart, it is these reason and more that make it difficult for me to say what it is about you that i am thankful for. In a nutshell, as I take the time during this time of year to truly, ponder and reflect upon my blessing and gratitude that I have experienced, you are at the top of my list.  And for this I will always be grateful that you allowed me to experience, your beauty, love and kindness.  I cannot say enough about how gifted you are and what a life changer on you have been to me.  You have given me a sense of empowerment that only you could.  I believe that a person is where they are in life because of others.  I am where I am in life which is much better because of you.  I am very thankful for you.  I hope what I have said makes sense.  You are one of the greatest individuals that I have met.  I am so thankful, of how safe, nonjudgemental and a feeling and sense of love and caring when I was I your home.  I also am thankful for your honesty. Don’t go changing.  You are perfect.”

“Oceana, Thank you for your graceful letter and your warm intentions. After that emotional release of the heart I have been able to more clearly see the nature of my body energy and how it asks for expression. Your touch is very effective in this. I am doing my meditations and breathing into the root every chance I get. Of course, I am also looking forward to our next meeting…”

“Dear Oceana, I lie awake remembering the connection we shared yesterday. It feels to me as if I have found a doorway to my deepest desires, and I experience great joy that with you I have taken the first steps through it. I am so grateful for the warmth with which you met me and the safety which you helped me to feel while exploring sensuality together. What emerged was so natural and beautiful. Your gift is so special and so very needed–thank you from the depths of my heart. I emerged from your sanctuary feeling so grounded and clear, the rest of my day taking on very beautiful qualities of connection and warmth no doubt because of the space we shared. My body, especially my root, feels more alive, and my curled up tail is playing with unfurling itself to the earth. It delights in the memory of you. I look forward to many more meetings and to embodying the depths of tantra. Thank you also for your generosity with your time. I eventually hope to be able to see what unfolds during a longer session. Again, I feel as if a deep wish is coming true.  My most heartfelt gratitude”

“Graceful Oceana,
I am glad I know you and you’ve helped me a million times! I appreciate you❤️”


“Hi beautiful. Thank you. Continuing our dance together is a priority to me this new year. I found a genuine connection with you, I appreciate our connection, and your guidance. Look forward to meeting again. Much love to you ❤️”

“Dear Oceana, I loved every second of our shared time. . . thank you. Your openness and perspective on human nature. . . your way of looking at the world of human relationships and interactions is soo refreshing and spot on! Your awareness of that which is fundamentally important to self care in constructing a life founded on deep truths that create and foster a harmonizing environment is beautiful. . . I am soon blessed to share this path with you! Wishing you a magnificent day.”

“Dear Oceana, Thank you for a very powerful session. I went to sleep at 8:30 pm and woke up at 6:00 am. Still digesting the lesson from yesterday. Extremely grateful for your exquisite presence in my life.”

“Dear Oceana, Thank you for today, you were wonderfully caring and genuine.  You definitely touched my soul and got me to open up. I’m profoundly grateful for that gift! And of course the heightened awareness and breath exercises were very intense! Wishing you a wonderful weekend and sending you blessings! I am sure we will meet again.”

“Oceana, Thank you so much for a wonderful experience. It gave me so much clarity and understanding of myself and how I process my emotions. You taught me so much about love and kindness in just a couple of hours. Looking forward to our next session. I will be reading this book before we meet.”

“Dear, Oceana, Thank you!!! Thank you for helping me create a magical and virtuous space, replete with Love and endless possibilities that nurture the heart and spirit. . .that maintain respect and trust, and joy, and ecstasy, and heart filled vibrations. . .and explorations of desire, and touch and love. I am tingling with excitement!”

~ “Oceana, You are amazing. I am floating. Going to yoga now. Much gratitude.”
~ “Oceana, Thank you to the best Tantra instructor ever. Have a good night.”
~ “Oceana, I am touching-base to reconnect with you regarding my healing process.It has been one year since the passing of my Father.
I have made progress, but believe that there is still energy healing/release to occur. Kind regards.
~ “Oceana, Thank you for listening. Many people ‘hear’ what you’re saying, but very few people listen. Yours.”

“Dear Divine Oceana, Why is it that I smile whenever I see that I have received an e-mail from you?? I could talk to you forever about the books you recommended and I am reading, already! I already understand some of the practices you and other tantra teachers do with me–starting with the body and grounding, ridding ourselves of body shame, celebrating the body…he talks of total orgasms with the universe, and experiences that cannot be reduced to words (I have had some!)., and only really understanding tantra when you are ready…I think I am ready! But we can talk someday more about this. Thank you for everything..and for the future as well! Love to you.”
~”Goddess Oceana, The bliss remains and grows- physical, emotional, and spiritual. Wow. Thank you. The more I understand, embrace, and believe that I can transcend to such higher levels of joy, the more I want to learn. I can’t thank you enough. Looking forward to the next one.”

“Gorgeous Oceana: I simply have no words. Thank you. Today was beyond anything I could have imagined. I sang all the way home. I still feel such love. I am so happy. I am so joyful. I look forward to continuing and will schedule a private to learn more next month.”

~”Dear Oceana: Thank you for an amazing experience! I look forward to the next one!”
~”Dear Oceana: It was such a powerful homecoming for me to be in my self with such ease with you. Thank you for always creating such a powerful, safe and transcendent container. Love.”

“To My Dear, To My Dear, Divine Dakini— Thank you for giving me such a wondrous afternoon of healing. I already feel a deep transformation, and I am looking forward to seeing what else develops as the effects of our work together settle in. You will say that, in truth, the healing energy was inside me all along, and of course you will be right. But only a very, very special person could have unlocked all those dormant powers. Thank you, my most sublime goddess, with all my heart. I will dream of your eyes tonight, and my sleep will therefore be sweet. PS–When you get the chance, could you email me instructions for the exercise we did together? I’d like to build them into my home practice. How does one just use the breath to move energy up the spine? I was able to do it in the moment, but somehow I seem to have forgotten the technique already. Looking forward to catching up on your radio show.”

~”Hi, Looking forward to having you get me on your wavelength again…”

~Hi Dakini, “I’m coming from a stronger, firmer place inside myself than I was three years ago. You helped me get there. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.”

~”I’ve been drilled about “The Present Moment” for 40 years by the spiritual industrial complex, and long ago wrote it off as a tired cliche. Until you led me to tie together Yama, Niyama, Asana, and Prana as a basis for mindful living. This has been a terribly hard lesson learned because I am driven and culturally conditioned toward enjoyment in all of its aspects. And probably the most valuable lesson learned because it affects every aspect of what I do. Breathing and presence is a moment by moment challenge, and is essential to expect intentional outcomes of Karma. Lacking presence in the moment leads to random Karma. Garbage in: garbage out. That is the harsh rule of the laws of physics. Something that you helped me to discover so late in life. I am so grateful for your teaching. You also taught me with tough love that the Goddess requires presence. Period.  Dakini teachers are so rare, and I know of none in my locality. Incessant tributes to you and you teaching. You make me a better Man.”

“Best wishes to you for a happy, spiritual, and blessed New Year.”

“Happy New Years, Dakini, Wishing you a year of success, love, health and everything else that comes along with it.”

“Thank you for those moments in paradise. You are so nice. I look forward to seeing you again soon. Happy Holidays. Warm Hugs.”

“Thank you so much for yesterday. Your healing energy is other worldly and divine. I am trying to breathe consciously. Love to you.”

“I look forward to further awakening ad connection under your guidance. P.S. I am enjoying your gallery. The photos bring a strong reminder of arousal and healing.”

“Dear Sara, I am looking at my schedule to make another appointment with you. In the meantime, I have to say, your perception of my anxiety and redirecting were uncanny. See you again soon.”

“Good Morning, I must thank you again as I was much more relaxed after seeing you. My session with you was absolutely wonderful. I am hoping you are available this week for another session. Looking forward to seeing you. Fondly.”

“It is Thanksgiving today and I am giving thanks for you, as you help guide me toward goodness and light. Have a lovely weekend.”

” It was really nice to see you again. I felt that my body and soul are RENEWED after the session.See you soon again!”

“I am giving thanks for you. . .as you help guide me toward goodness and light. Have a lovely weekend.”

“A new meaning to sleep like a baby. What an amazing adventure.”

“Thank you  for sharing so much beauty. See you again very soon.”

“Thank you, Your knowledge and attention are great gifts.”

“Thank you for this morning. Blessings to you.”

“Thank you so much for yesterday. You are so beautiful and o gifted. I needed that time with you. See you again soon.”

“Hi, Thanks again for another great session last week. Great to really connect and center on the here/ now under your enlightened guidance. Hope to see you again soon.”

“Dear Dakini, I am going out for a long walk on the water now to meditate on the deep things we shared with each other.”

Hi, How are you? I’d love to see you soon and continue our sweet song.”

Dear Dakini, “I am tired of the noisy bustle of the outside world and would just appreciate an intimate evening with you. Talking with you, with your music and design surrounding me. Last we met and we talked some things, was first time I have ever had the opportunity to talk about it. It was significant. Thank you. Can we meet again this weekend?”

Hello,  ‘Wonderful session a few weeks ago Lots to think about. Would love to do another one soon, let me know if you are open to repeat.”

Hello, Darling, “How is the sexiest woman on planet? Baby hair, with a woman’s eyes, I can feel you watching in the night. All alone with me and we’re waiting for the sunlight. . .”

Dear, Dakini, “Watching the sun sink behind the mountains and thinking of you. Thank you for sharing your vision and your talent, and making this world a better place.”

“It is Thursday morning and I am sitting in Times Square amidst humanity…all sizes, all shapes, true diversity.  It occurs to me each of us is as individual as a snowflake –  all different, but put together creates a beautiful picture. I spent time reflecting on our session Tuesday evening.  Everything from the heart to heart hug that welcomed me into your studio to the refreshing shower, our eye gazing, undressing and then dressing you to the massage and shower and another heart to heart hug of, not goodbye, but until we meet again.  I am so grateful for the experience. Most of all, I truly enjoyed and appreciated just sitting and talking.  Your questions made me think and reflect on my life and life experiences.  You have a unique way of probing, getting me to feel trust and love, and really opening up – which is not easy for me to do.  Thank you for helping me to once again embrace discomfort. The time spent talking in front of the candles is time I will never forget.  I look forward to being together with you again.  I’ll let you know when I will be back here in September, if not sooner. Peace.”

“Thank you for a wonderful afternoon. I am in awe of your beauty,  presence, wonderfulness and fantasticness (my phone says that’s not a word, but I say it is!) I hope you enjoy the music, and get a chance to listen though the playlist. I look forward to seeing you again and continuing the journey. Namaste.”

 “I am getting broken in too many activities and unable to reunite what I am doing. I am missing your guidance to be peaceful again, and would like to continue making progress to take that in my future life. Are there possibilities we could talk about for my next visit in NYC next late September for further teaching? Love and peace.”

“I can’t stop thinking about my time with you yesterday. I was very nervous to begin with  , but you made me feel incredible but I was able to focus on “me” and I started feeling better about  myself and my life . I feel now that I can trust you (and hopefully you don’t mind spending time with me )and  I would like to continue and progress with our sessions. I just felt so wonderful yesterday that I want to experience more. Thanks again for listening. Have a great day.”

 “You will probably not remember me, but I wrote seven years ago which you have placed on your website: You have tremendous gifts. I really believe that you helped me to accomplish what hours and hours of therapy would have taken, if ever accomplished. I still cannot believe that we spoke for two hours non stop. And I am still amazed at your generosity. . I know of few therapists, physicians, or professionals, who would extend an appointment, free of charge no less, without any hesitation. I still have a sense of “lite-ness” from having a genuine burden lifted, lifted because of the incredible insights I gained into myself. Tell me you can’t learn at my age! And really, a burden was lifted, a terrible burden. You are right, this was of God. I am in NYC and would love to see you (7 years ago we simply talked for 2 hours! )  I am hoping this is possible! Please let me know!”

Hi,  “I just wanted to say thank you for an amazing experience. You are just a wonderful person. When I first laid eyes on you, I couldn’t believe how beautiful you were in person, but I truly didn’t expect to find you even more beautiful on the inside. BTW, I feel myself taking deep breath’s . Well I’ll have more to say later, when I get home, but I just wanted to pull over and at least say this.
I know I’m a work in progress, but I truly can’t wait to see you again soon. I don’t know if you’ll ever get rid of me now JK.
Thanks again for everything and I’ll be in touch later!”

“Wishing you a Happy Easter and looking forward to seeing you again. . .”

 “I felt a sense of joy following our session on Monday that has lasted ever since. It wasn’t caused by anything that either of us said, but by a realization that together we have achieved something worthwhile. I set out 2-1/2 years ago to change my interior center, the place from which I reach out to the world, from one molded to achieve career and family security to one more authentically centered on my soul. With your gentle but persistent mentoring, asking tough questions and making pertinent comments, I have mostly arrived there. There is still much work to be done in learning how to better reach out from that place.I’m increasingly aware that time is only linear as it measures our sojourn here on Earth, allowing us to do in sequence the things necessary to fulfill our purpose. When we aren’t caught up in organizing and analyzing those things, or in fear or regret, when there is no other place we need to go, time disappears. The breathing exercises you taught me help make that happen. Thank you.”

 “Still feeling nicely mellow. Very nice to continue to explore with your warm support. Looking forward to our next time.”

Hi Bella! “OMG! I woke up this morning thinking that I owe you an update after the massage, it’s been 2 weeks. I felt great after, and believe me, I didn’t get out there thinking it was too much hahaha. I spent a few days trying to figure out why I was feeling so light and at peace,  I’ll never forget the sensations! That also made me feel stronger and confident to go on a weekend breathwork this weekend. It wasn’t easy at the beginning, I felt shy and insecure, but at the end was an amazing experience. Best wishes.”

To My Dear, To My Dear, Divine Dakini— “Thank you for giving me such a wondrous afternoon of love and healing. I already feel a deep transformation, and I am looking forward to seeing what else develops as the effects of our work together settle in. You will say that, in truth, the healing energy was inside me all along, and of course you will be right. But only a very, very special person could have unlocked all those dormant powers. Thank you, my most sublime goddess, with all my heart. I will dream of your eyes tonight, and my sleep will therefore be sweet. May your slumbers be sweet as well, my dear, lovely Sara; and may we see each other again before too long. Love, love, love, love, love.”

“Hope all is wonderful with you. I am settling into what seems like the beginnings of a solid practice. Doing the AYP morning and evening spinal breathing and meditation. Read the Asanas book and am working on the Easy Lessons for Ecstatic Living book now. I love this. in conjunction with the more tantra-specific breathing and the self-pleasuring and self-awareness practices, it’s a good diet! I feel as if I am becoming more connected and more at ease with my body. One little step at a time :)”

To my Guide/Muse/Teacher, “I have such respect for all that you have given me, that I sometimes find myself hesitant to ask directly for my needs, which I know is silly since you have always encouraged me, often pushed for me to do so. It’s just a reminder for me to give focus to those times when you ask or give space for my expression, or when I need to ask for space for my expression, that I become more comfortable in filling that space. To that end, our last several sessions have been truly transformational, both in terms of exploring experiences of giving over control and expectations and truly welcoming new physical and emotional comfort/discomfort, both of which have been transformational in ways that expand for me with every day. With that, sending you much gratitude and love. You are the rarest of lovely beings.” Yours, Student/Seeker

Hi, “I appreciate you, with all those kind and wise words.  Our session yesterday left me feeling warm and happy. You remained attentive and engaged throughout, with rich facial expression and lots of perceptive comments and questions.  I’ve been aware from the time we first met how rapidly you’ve helped me to grow inside, and the dangers of acting too quickly on what I’ve learned, before the growth has a chance to settle in and consolidate.  I’m so grateful for what you’ve done for the growth of my soul, and so pleased that you have allowed me to experience yours.  Good night.”

“Thank you for your words of inspiration during meditation… “A soft touch of moonlight inside a flower’s petal” took me to an image of a velvet-white wild orchid in the depth of a remote forest faintly touched by the sun’s tender morning warmth…Wishing you much warmth and love.”

My dear and beautiful Dakini, “Human beings when not stressed, are utterly beautiful. It is only when we are confused that our hearts shrivel and our minds figure crafty ways out of situations. The enormous power of the heart, and the power we have to receive the healing we took birth for, is within is all.” Your words were so wonderfully gentle, so utterly beautiful, all the while being engaged and focused professionally. I am moved beyond.  I will use that energy practicing breathing, with infinite joy.”

“Thank you for another beautiful session yesterday. It is the first time in my life that I open up to someone as much as I have since our first session. Thanks for everything you are. I am looking forward to more work on breathing. When I am not with you I have difficulty to concentrate and do the breathing for a long time. I wish you a beautiful week and cannot wait to see you again next week. Thanks as well for your recommendation of how to handle pressure. I would love to have a picture of you. I believe it would help me when I need to find peace.”

 “I cannot take you out of my mind. In only two hours you have transformed the way I see life. You have opened a new world for me. It is like a new birth. I would like to learn a lot more. I feel like a kid tonight. I see things differently already. I know you analyze and understand people in a blink. I enjoyed thoroughly our discussion about the God in us. You are so special. YOU are the mother of the universe. In one sentence I simply want to thank you for what you have given me. I am eternally grateful. I chose you. Something guided my choice. The power of the universe. Your power.”

 “WOW”! Thanks so much. I think it is SO wonderful how you work with couples and keep it very professional. I have a lot of respect for you:) I really appreciate your openness and communication. This is why I love what you do. All we can do is talk about the incredible tantra breathing you showed us, we are so excited and happy from our experience with you. We will be in touch.”

“Thank you for our session today – I feel like my eyes have been opened and that it will take me a more than a little time to master your techniques.  Overall, I found your coaching and your intimacy quite wonderful and I feel a little overwhelmed in the most positive way.” 

“You are truly blessed and I appreciate your sharing so personally your gifts.
Your patient sitting with the moment, your unhurried cherishing of the current experience, your gentle guiding on breath, relaxation, and focus – all beautiful, of course not mentioning physical beauty, naturally. Thank you.”

“Our session was incredible. Thank you for sharing your gift. I feel like a doorway has opened.” 

Hello Dakini “I cannot take you out of my mind. In only two hours you have transformed the way I see life. You have opened a new world for me. It is like a new birth. I would like to learn a lot more. I feel like a kid tonight. I see things differently already. I know you analyze and understand people in a blink. I enjoyed thoroughly our discussion about the God in us. You are so special. YOU are the mother of the universe. In one sentence I simply want to thank you for what you have given me. I am eternally grateful. I chose you. Something guided my choice. The power of the universe. Your power.”

Dakini“Thank you for another beautiful session yesterday. It is the first time in my life that I open up to someone as much as I have since our first session. Thanks for everything you are. I am looking forward to more work on breathing. When I am not with you I have difficulty to concentrate and do the breathing for a long time. I wish you a beautiful week and cannot wait to see you again next week. Thanks as well for your recommendation of how to handle pressure. I would love to have a picture of you. I believe it would help me when I need to find peace.”

 “Thank you for your time and generosity of self. With warmth.”

Dearest Dakini, You inspired me to spend time last night meditating and enjoying the beauty and power of the moon…it was so beautiful, affecting so much on earth without people noticing….You are a remarkable being, a healer full of radiant energy that brings a depth of tranquility (to me) which is always greater than that which I could previously imagine. Thank you.
You are always light years ahead of me…you know so much, you are so perceptive. I do now have lots of questions that i would like to discuss with you in another session next week

Dear Dakini “At the risk of being repetitive, which I often am, I simply wanted to Thank YOU for all your guidance, warmth, wisdom and perspective.”

 “That was really a profound and wonderful session. thanks so much. I feel warm, centered – all I’ve got for words I’m afraid   there was so much there and so much I took away from it. you’re really helping me enormously and I greatly appreciate your skill and your heart.”

Thank you  “You are an incredible person and I feel connected to you on so many levels. I look forward to returning in August and hope that you travels are safe and filled with wonderful memories waiting to happen.”

“Hope all is wonderful with you. I am settling into what seems like the beginnings of a solid practice. Doing the AYP morning and evening spinal breathing and meditation. Read the Asanas book and am working on the Easy Lessons for Ecstatic Living book now. I love this. in conjunction with the more tantra-specific breathing and the self-pleasuring and self-awareness practices, it’s a good diet! I feel as if I am becoming more connected and more at ease with my body. One little step at a time :)”

“I hope that this note finds you at peace with yourself and the world around
you. As the days go by I find that I appreciate the time that we had together more each day. There was something very special about how we begin. Breathing and feeling the earth to its core beneath me continues to energize me. See you soon.”

 “You never cease to amaze me. Thank you so very much for your integrity, advise, point of view, respect, warm heart and care. I really appreciate it very much. You are a remarkable soul spirit and human being.Please enjoy this most amazing day! All the best to you!”

My dear and beautiful Dakini, “Human beings when not stressed, are utterly beautiful. It is only when we are confused that our hearts shrivel and our minds figure crafty ways out of situations. The enormous power of the heart, and the power we have to receive the healing we took birth for, is within is all.”

“Your were so wonderfully gentle, so utterly beautiful, all the while being engaged and focused professionally. I am moved beyond.  I will use that energy practicing breathing, with infinite joy.

 “As always, you are a beacon for my continuing journey.  Thank you.”

 Thank you again so much for such an instructive, nurturing and truly beautiful session. I value our trust and comfort. I am grateful for it. Because of the practice and your guidance, I feel the path from my second to fourth chakras through my third chakra has significantly opened. The proof is that I had a burst of creativity on Monday evening that really surprised  me. I’ll share more when I see you next.”

 “I wanted to say hi. I think back to the sessions I took in your studio pretty often. I am working on riding the waves of emotion that enter my awareness. I just started doing chakra meditation, its so interesting how you can feel moods and feelings change themselves after awhile. I just wanted to say hi and have a good day. Thank you for sharing your training. Very useful and connecting.”

 “Through you caring warmth and guidance I have begun uniting those threads that harmonize my heart. You have led me to the discovery of the beauty that I and all others are. Having greatly touched my heart, you’ve revealed a beautiful world to me. I honor the higher self in you as you have helped me honor that in me. Thank you for your guidance, caring, spirit, and love which has resulted in the universe opening up to me.”
“A lily or a rose never pretends, and its beauty is that it is what it is”- Krushnamurti

“You have tremendous gifts. I really believe that you helped me to accomplish what hours and hours of therapy would have taken, if ever accomplished. I still cannot believe that we spoke for two hours non stop. And I am still amazed at your generosity. . I know of few therapists, physicians, or professionals, who would extend an appointment, free of charge no less, without any hesitation. I still have a sense of “lite-ness” from having a genuine burden lifted, lifted because of the incredible insights I gained into myself. Tell me you can’t learn at my age! And really, a burden was lifted, a terrible burden. You are right, this was of God. Perhaps stranger are tears, briefly, not of sadness or shame, but of gratitude and joy. I hope to have the honor to see you again. Would it be possible to do phone sessions? I just don’t want to go back to where I was yesterday morning. Today is just too nice. . I don’t know how to say thank you. Much love and gratitude.”

 “I just wanted to write and tell you how much I really enjoyed meeting you. I was not sure what to expect but you did wonders for immediately opening my heart. I rode that wave for many days thereafter.. You are a truly inspirational and creative force of nature. I’ve had so much blocked from opening in the past, and to feeling feminine as well. But you refreshed my memory as to what it means to carry a very feminine disposition. Thank you! Blessings.”

“Treasured Dakini–You are the Mona Lisa. It will take some time for me to process everything we talked about.  Old energy patterns in my body are shifting.  Aches and pains as old as my memory are dissipating.  A gentle calm has descended upon me.  I’m now a little more able to sit still with difficult feelings, a little more open to everything that is. Thank you, most beloved Goddess Sara, for teaching me how to find a little more beauty in myself.

 Thank you for all your guidance, instruction, caring, and inspiration.  It seems with each passing day my knowledge and awareness expands.  It also feels that the more I learn, the more is yet to be learned. I intend to approach this slowly and tenderly. You are indeed very special and unique in you perception, intuitiveness, and ability to care and love. My opinion is that you are something that only a small percentage of humans ever realize. I am truly humbled and inspired, and bow to you honour…”

 Thank you. The images of flowers have stayed with me – and reminded me of a song I wrote one day in Spring some years ago…Teach Me To Say Goodbye. You are doing that and helping me open new doors. Thank you” 
“Sara, You really are empowered with the ability to look deep into others. I don’t know if that is something learned or innate, but regardless, it is a special attribute. You seem to have wisdom that is only matched by your beauty, and certainly belies your young age.  I suppose these are truly goddess qualities. Thank you”

“Hi , Now I feel to be “untying” that knot within me…the knot of loss and pain.  I am being very gentle with this, and at same time very focused. I am in your deepest debt for your guidance, intuition, compassion, insight, kindest compliments.  You are truly a lighted spirit and I consider myself fortunate and blessed to be under your guidance. Peace , warmth, and serenity”

“Dear Dakini, I awoke this morning with such appreciation for you and the work you do. You truly stand out in this industry; your beauty, your heartfulness, your knowledge all create the most uplifting experience for the people lucky enough to meet you.”

“Hi S, Allow me to express how much I learned much from you and hope to learn more. I fell very centered and very at ease. Your beauty (both inner and outer) and knowledge allowed me to experience a new level of connecting to myself and introduce me to tantra.”

“….I am just starting to realize that I been in the early stages of self-awakening for years, the search for Transformation and rebirth. Saying body, mind and spirit is important and then reaching outside your comfort zone and doing it, are truly a phase of releasing control and becoming aware of the “art of possibilities.” I would never have accepted the experience without you saying to trust your instincts. I have been blessed by you. I look forward to continue on my journey to self-awakening .Thank you for your generosity of spirit and sharing your inner spirit with me. You are the most intuitive person I have met.  Much Peace”

Dakini. . .Thanks for the knowledge you imparted.  I have started to incorporate your teachings and I am definitely feeling less stressed in general.  The breathing technique provides wonderful assistance and is something that I am taking the time to do daily. In addition, I would like to continue gaining knowledge with you. Thank you”

“Hello Love …I have felt much more positive energy every day. I am more focused and feel more productive. I bought a yoga ball and am using it at my desk in the office (so I am getting some core strength in every day). And I feel I have connected more with my wife, and made time to talk with each other after the kids are in bed. We have fallen asleep in each others arms a few times, which hadn’t happened for a long time because of the 2 kids and being so tired at the end of each day. Thank you for sharing your energy, passion, and ‘joie de vivre’ with me. Your warm and loving energy has almost magical healing powers … ”

“Sweetest Dakini: I simply cannot thank you enough. I come to you with a problem – some despair or desperation – and you never fail to help me re-center myself. With you, I can truly say that I am seeking therapy and always feel refreshed, with new wisdom and techniques to practice (and homework!). Respectfully yours….”

“Dearest Dakini You are so absolutely beautiful and gracious that I am simply floating! Your physical beauty is astounding, and your personality is delightful.”

When I saw this quote I thought of you. You truly work with Love in your healing, guiding and teaching to others. Namaste.

“And when you work with Love you bind yourself to yourself and to one another, and to God”- Kahlil Gibran